Stop Shoulding On Your Scrapbooking (+ giveaway)

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When I was in school (back in the day), I remember talking to one of my teachers and saying, “I should…” His response to me was, “The world would be a better place if people would stop shoulding on themselves.”  That phrase has always stuck with me and I actually use it a lot.  I have taken it to mean that we either need to decide to do something  or not do something, but not look back with guilt or regrets.  The word “should” often comes from a place of guilt…especially in scrapbooking.  If we change that SHOULD to WANT, it creates a whole new feeling.  Let’s take a look:

I should scrapbook more.
vs.
I want to scrapbook more.

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I should use more embellishments on my layouts.
vs.
I want to use more embellishments on my layouts.

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I should try using less stuff on my layouts.
vs.
I want to try using less stuff on my layouts.

Dictionary.com defines the word should as:
must; ought (used to indicate duty, propriety, or expediency)

The great thing about scrapbooking is that there aren’t any rules and there aren’t any SHOULDS!  As you move into the New Year, resolve to do what you WANT in your scrapbooking…what makes you happy…what is fulfilling to you! If you want to try something different or new….GREAT!! If you are happy where you are….AWESOME!!

Remember; there are no requirements, no rules, so stop shoulding on your scrapbooking!!

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Today, we are offering a spot in Ali Edward’s popular class, “Yesterday, Today”. Here’s a little about it:

Join popular blogger and scrapbooker Ali Edwards,  along with a diverse group of memory keepers, as they learn to make meaningful connections to their past in order to live their life in a more thoughtful way. Projects are limited to one layout a week that address the questions listed below:

  • Where do you begin creating with photos from generations past?
  • What do you wish you knew about your parents when they were growing up? What life lessons do you want to pass on to your children?
  • How do you document the challenging times in your life?
  • How do you create layouts that tell special stories when you don’t have any photos?

Please leave a comment by midnight ET, Wednesday, telling us why you want to take this class.  A random winner will be chosen.

If you aren’t the person selected to receive this class for free, you can use this coupon code to get 10% off the cost of “Yesterday, Today”:
yesterdaytoday

P.S. Tamara was the random winner chosen from yesterday’s comments on Laura’s post!  She won $10 in product from Laura! Congratulations Tamara!

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162 Responses to Stop Shoulding On Your Scrapbooking (+ giveaway)

  1. 161
    Donna B says:

    I’d love the opportunity to take this class, the concept sounds like it would be very rewarding emotionally and also very fun and interesting!

  2. 160
    Nancy L says:

    I know this class from Ali would inspire and get me started documenting my story.

  3. 159
    amber says:

    I have so many “older” stories that I think this class would be so helpful for telling.

  4. 158
    xing says:

    I would like to take this class, because it’s something I would not normally do, e.g. I would be stepping out of my comfort zone and learning new things :D

  5. 157
    J3SS1C4 says:

    WOW, this class looks amazing! I’d love to do something like this, as I don’t have alot of standout memories from when I was younger, but I would love to document the ones that I do have! I believe it would be a treasured album for years to come, as it would show what things were like when I was growing up.

    Also, neither my Mum or my grandparents scrapbook or document life in any way, and I find it rather sad not getting to see much of there perspective. I don’t want to be like that when I have kids, I want them to be able to see what my life was like growing up if they choose to.

  6. 156
    Melissa Rhodes says:

    Wish I would have known about this giveaway! I really want the class but cannot afford it right now!

  7. 155
    Elaine says:

    I am a follower of Ali and her stories of everyday life approach.

  8. 154
    Tamara guayamama says:

    Thanks for the reminder about framing our outlook on scrapping!
    Great giveaway too – I’d love a chance to take the class!

  9. 153
    Carolyn Fong says:

    Oh…i’d love to take this class!

  10. 152
    Antoinette Naude says:

    I’ve never attempted to add more than 2 sentences to a layout so all the journaling and storytelling in this class will be excellent to learn from Ali the expert.

  11. 151
    Caity says:

    Oh yes – I’ve been saying I *should* get some pages done about my past but didn’t know how to start without photos – this class would be just the thing for me! Thanks for the chance!

  12. 150
    Olivia says:

    I would like to take this class because journaling is the most important part of scrapbooking for me & I’d really welcome some help to tell my story & record it in my albums :)

    Thanks!

  13. 149
    Marcy says:

    I would SO love to take this class! THanks for the chance! MERRY CHRISTMAS!

  14. 148
    Anna says:

    This is awesome! I would love to win because I love Ali’s style!!!

  15. 147
    Cheryl says:

    I would love to take this class of Ali’s because I want to record the stories and pictures of my family’s life in the way that she does. Thanks for the chance to win.

  16. 146
    Renee J. says:

    I would love to take this class because Ali always offers so much insight; she is a true inspiration. Thank you for the chance to win!!

  17. 145
    Ruth says:

    Would love to take Ali’s class, I LOVE her work.

  18. 144
    Deirdre says:

    Fingers crossed, hoping to win:)
    Love this post—want to re-evaluate my 2011 “shoulds into a list of real “wants”. Thanks for the inspiration!

  19. 143
    Amanda says:

    This would be wonderful to win!

  20. 142
    Erin says:

    I would love to win a spot in one of Ali’s class. Thanks for the opportunity.

  21. 141
    Mary says:

    As an older Mom, most of my grandparents are no longer alive for my son to meet. I have spent most of my time scrapbooking my son’s life. I would love an opportunity for some guidance on scrapbooking my family so that my son can learn about the family he didn’t have an opportunity to meet.

  22. 140
    steph says:

    I would love to win, I love Ali’s style. .

  23. 139
    moncoff says:

    This class sounds amazing. I just received a journal and lots of memorabilia from my 89 year old grandmother and would love to use the class to help document some of her stories. Thanks for the chance to win!

  24. 138
    Jennifer Hignite says:

    I would love to take this class, I will scrap more of my family history this year so this class would be perfect!

  25. 137
    Michelle D. says:

    I would love to win this class because my family means so much to me and this is so important! Thanks for the chance! Michelle

  26. 136
    Melissa Dill says:

    I think it’s time for me to put away my “shoulding” and this would be a great kick off!

  27. 135
    mllwyllw says:

    I’ve wanted to take this class! This would give me an amazing excuse to get lots of scrapbooking done!

  28. 134
    bunnyfreak says:

    I would like to win because I have always like Ali’s style.

  29. 133
    Heather says:

    I would love to take this class because I adore Ali and love her style.

    And I have so many stories I want to tell. So many that I am in fact tripping on them and thus never telling any of them. Help would be awesome.

  30. 132
    Sandy says:

    Ali is such an inspiring woman, story teller and scrapbooker, would love the chance to learn from the best :)

  31. 131
    Renee S says:

    I should win this class.
    vs
    I will win this class;)

  32. 130
    Donna B says:

    I would love to win because I:
    -am completely inspired by Ali Edwards
    -am the person that WANTS to document my family’s story (past & present)
    -am finally getting back into my hobby now that my daughter is 3.

    Thanks for the chance to win! Good luck and Happy Holidays everyone!

  33. 129
    Sheila M. says:

    I want to take this class because I had a miserable 2010 and I need to start out 2011 with something great!

  34. 128
    Sarah K says:

    I would love love love to win…I have looked at this class oh so many times but due to the economy have to deny myself this year.

  35. 127
    Carrie H says:

    I would love to find this under my tree this year…. this year we have lost several family members and I would love to have some much needed help capturing some precious family memories… mixing the relationships and showing how are dear family is knit together.

  36. 126
    Corinne L says:

    I want to record more about everyday life – not just what the kids get up to.

  37. 125
    Sheri W. says:

    I WANT to take this class to better preserve the family photos that have been handed down to me. I want to take this class so I can tell a better story about the people in those photographs.

  38. 124
    Julie H. says:

    I would love to take this class. When my mother passed away in June, I inherited box upon box of old photos that I want to scrapbook but I have no idea where to start. I don’t even know who some of the people in the photos are or how they were significant in my mother’s or her family’s life. It would be nice to give these photos the respect and loving care that they deserve.

  39. 123
    Liz says:

    I would love to take this class because I want to document the everyday life. My mom is starting to forget a lot of stuff that has happened and I would love to get the stories (from her perspective) while she still remembers.

  40. 122
    BettyJoR says:

    I would love to take Ali’s class because I love her style. I am just beginning the process of scanning many of my families old photos and would love to know “Where do you begin creating with photos from generations past”. Thank you so much for the chance! Hope you have a Merry Christmas!! Betty Jo

  41. 121
    Julie says:

    I would love to take this class cuz I love Ali! I took a class of hers at the Mall of America about five years ago and love her style of scrapbooking.

    Thanks for a fun giveaway….happy holidays!
    Julie

  42. 120
    Nikki says:

    This would be such a great way to start the year working on a project like this! Thanks for the chance to win!

  43. 119
    Michelle P says:

    I want and wish so much to win a spot in this class, love Ali! I learned this summer that I have a brother and sister from my dad previous marriage and since he past away, I realized how important for me and my children to record and capture my story for them and I still have my mother to turn too for stories to tell. This class is very special to me.

  44. 118
    Nancy says:

    I think this class would be a great way to discipline myself to tackling all the boxes of photos and old albums that I’ve been “meaning to get around to.”

  45. 117
    Mari says:

    I have a lot of old photos that belonged to my mother and I’d like to create a cohesive album to display them and add a little about the people in the photos if I can.

  46. 116
    Dori J. says:

    I tried creating a keepsake scrapbook with all of my parents’ old photos (copies, of course) – to give to my son – and just got plain ‘stuck’, creatively. So this class has been on my wish list for a while now. Thanks for the chance to win. :)

  47. 115
    Marsaille says:

    I want to take this b/c I am a huge fan with good stories to tell and I can’t otherwise afford it!

  48. 114
    Jen D says:

    I would love to take this class to get down some of my Grandfather’s stories before he’s gone. He is my last surviving grandparent and I hardly know anything about his life.

  49. 113
    Lauren B. says:

    Now that I have children of my own, I realize how important the everyday little moments are the most meaningful. I have never scrapbooked my childhood, and think that this would be the best time to start and to pass on my past little moments to my children.

  50. 112
    Joy T. says:

    Thanks for the chance to win a spot!!!

  51. 111
    Marilyn says:

    I tend to not delve too deeply in my ‘whys and wherefores,’ so it would really be a good class for me to help take a harder look at who I am… Always room to learn!

  52. 110
    Tara says:

    I would love to win this class because it is a perfect way to learn about myself and my family. Plus I want to learn how to tell these stories when photos are sometimes not available.

  53. 109
    Marilyn Nimmo says:

    I would like to scrapbook my heritage and need help getting started. This seems like just the class! Thanks for a chance to win.

  54. 108
    Mary K says:

    I want to take this class to get the stories of the past documented.

  55. 107
    Marie/Mer says:

    I would so love to win this class. It would be a wonderful Christmas gift. I have all of my family’s older photos and I really would like (not should…hehehe) scrap more of them.

  56. 106
    SparrowApril says:

    This class is on my Christmas list. I want to learn how to tell the stories for which I have no pictures.
    I want to learn to tell stories that tie my Mom (who is gone) to our lives, today – because she as influenced so much of who we are.

  57. 105
    Theresa says:

    I want to take this class because I love Ali and have never taken a class from her before. I want this class because I love to scrapbook. I want to take this class because it sounds fun! Thanks!!

  58. 104
    Amy Ulen says:

    I want to take this class so that I can revisit stories from my past. I’m way too much of an event scrapbooker and I really want to grow past that this year. Thanks for the opportunity!

  59. 103
    Kristina says:

    I haven’t scrapbooked since my youngest (now almost 2 1/2) was born. Mostly because I lost my craft room, but also because I didn’t make an effort to make time for it. I would love to win a spot in this class. Love Ali Edwards!!

  60. 102
    Tracy Richardson says:

    I would love to win this! Ali is my favorite designer and I’m always inspired by her.

  61. 101
    GinnyRit says:

    I want to take this class because I recently inherited several bins of family photos and I would love to get these stories told! I’m slowly getting started, but this class would be a terrific motivator!