The Reality of This Moment

I’m a long-time fan of Leo Babauta, author of the popular blog Zen Habits. While we may not have the exact same view on everything, I love the way that he brings to light particular truths. He writes in a way that makes you yearn to live fully, to enjoy the moment.

And isn’t that we are trying to do as memory keepers? As we click the shutter on our cameras, aren’t we in essence saying, “This moment is beautiful. This moment is real and alive. I want to remember this moment forever. CLICK.”

And then we take those memories and out them in our scrapbook pages, as we try to fully remember what the moment looked like, what it felt like.

I have hundreds thousands of these moments. Of these photos. Of these pages. I want to remember.

But even more, I want to truly LIVE the moments, because they will never happen again.

Here is Leo’s wonderful post, The Reality of This Moment (posted with permission). As you start a new week, remember to be aware of each moment, because they will never come again. As you look at your children, know that they will never look exactly like that again. As you look at the leaves on the trees, perhaps already changing color, know that this moment is just that — a moment. It won’t come again. Enjoy it now.

As you sit here reading this, pause and expand your awareness beyond your computer/phone … what is the reality of this moment?

You’re reading, and there are a bunch of other tasks you want to do on your computer, yes … but there’s also your body. How does that feel? There’s the area around you, perhaps some people around you. There’s nature nearby.

Take a pause to become aware of the actual reality of this particular moment.

As we go through our day, we’re often stressed because of all the things we have to do, the things we’re not doing. We worry about how things will go in the future, and procrastinate because we’re afraid of an overwhelming task. We feel we’re not good enough, we compare ourselves to others, we fall short of some ideal. We replay a conversation that already happened.

That’s all in our heads, but it’s all fantasy. The reality of this specific moment is that you’re OK. Better than OK, actually: there are so many good things to be grateful for, in this moment.

And there are the particulars of the moment that only exist, right now. The combination of sounds and colors and shapes and smells around you will never exist in this particular combination ever again. The way your body feels, the thought that pops into your head in the next moment, will never exist again, ever.

You yourself are changing all the time. We think of ourselves as one unchanging entity, but the self that you are right now is different than the one you were before you read this article. And that was different than the one who woke up this morning, because various things interacted with you to change you in small (or large) ways.

So the you that exists right now will change in a moment, from interacting with the particulars of the next moment. The you that exists right now will never exist again.

This is the ever-changing, impermanent nature of you. And in truth, every single thing around you is changing all the time, sometimes in less obvious ways. Everyone around you is changing. Each moment is a fluid snapshot of impermanent changing entities, interacting with each other.

That’s the reality of this moment. Don’t miss it.

And this awareness is available to you all the time. Throughout the day, as you start to worry and get lost in your tasks, ask yourself, “What’s the reality of this moment?”